Here To Dump

Here I am again, still unable to pass my own hurdle. Here is the dumping ground for all the unsaid. They said confide in someone; it'll make you feel much better. But "someone", where do I find this "someone"?

Confiding in people is so easy. Though I guess I do have certain requirements and expectations for someone to be considered a confidant. 

So where do I find this "someone"?